Invite Yourself to Eat Healthy Foods

In anticipation of holiday treat platters inviting me to sample sugary treats all week, I decided to build a small perimeter of defense.  I spent a bit of time last Sunday evening chopping vegetables, lettuce, spinach and kale to assemble some stacked salad combos to have ready for lunches all week.  The hard-cooked eggs, garbanzo and black beans were ready to add protein to the salads to sustain us through the day.  It had been more than year since I spent a Sunday evening chopping and preparing salads for lunches.  I think at one point, I had a salad for lunch most every work day for six months.  Isn’t it strange how a disruption can throw you off of a good habit?  A year or so ago, I was preparing the salads in wide-mouth quart jars.  They looked so pretty lined up in my refrigerator.  Last week, I put the salads in glass bowls instead.  Since I layer the salads, they are not as easy to eat from a jar.  The salad fixings mix better while I’m eating them from a bowl.  I suppose I could use plastic storage containers, but somehow the opaque plastic hides all the inviting colors of the tomatoes, carrots, broccoli and beans.  It seems if the food is prepared, easily accessible and visible, it gets eaten.  I suppose knowing that simple fact is half the battle in daily health habits.

It is surprising how we unwittingly invite ourselves to make food choices.  It is no surprise that the plate of chocolate fudge, peanut butter balls, caramels and cookies that is on a glass platter sitting on the counter invites us to nibble and nosh, even when we didn’t mean to do so.  I may have just gone to the kitchen for a glass of water, but if that goodies selection is sitting there staring at me, it is unlikely that I will leave the kitchen with just my glass of water.  The good news is that we can learn to make healthier foods just as inviting.  Have you ever done a household food andnutrition assessment? 

Instead of coming home from the market and putting the produce in the vegetable drawer, prepare it in ready-to-eat packaging.  A bag of carrots can sit in the back of the vegetable drawer for a long time without anyone being “invited” to eat them, but, get them out and peel them, chop them and put them in a glass container in the front of the refrigerator and they’ll invite every person who opens the refrigerator to consider the carrots as their next snack.   There are many consumer and food psychology principles we can put to work for us.  One of my favorite consumer psychologists is Dr. Brian Wansink.  A quick web sear

ch will reveal many videos as well as a list of books he has authored.  Dr. Wansink is famous for the discreet food invitation.  From school cafeterias to business lunches, he purposefully revamps food service opportunities as part of his research.  He has spent considerable time discovering the subtle changes in where foods are placed, how they are served, what containers we use and how it all comes together to suggest and influence our choices – healthy or unhealthy.  In one school cafeteria makeover, placing fruit at the front of the line in an attractive bowl dramatically increased fruit consumption.

 

Store nutritious foods where they are easier to access than less nutritious foods.  It is easier to keep on a healthy track if the healthy choice is the easy choice.  I invite you to think about your own food and nutrition environment and how you can invite yourself to make healthy choices.  

Bah! Humbug! Just Breathe ...

I know last week I was a little bah-humbug about the holidays.  I really don’t mean to sound like Scrooge, but the holidays provide unique stressors for nearly everyone.  For me, it tends to be gift giving.  It stresses my time, energy, creativity and budget.  I don’t think I’m alone.  A conversation with my 10-year-old daughter revealed that she, too, is stressed about finding the right gifts for her family that fit within the confines of her time, talent and budget.  We talked about the gifts she brings that we appreciate most are not ones that can be put in a box and wrapped.  Her sense of humor and loving spirit are two much appreciated gifts.  Still, even 10-year-olds are not immune to the stresses of the season.

Maybe for you gift-giving isn’t the trigger.  Maybe food is a stressor for you.  All those high-sugar treats tempting you all the time.  It could be the extra events in the schedule that tax a limited energy supply.  Perhaps your stressor is a particular family member who pushes your buttons and who you can avoid most of the year, except during the holidays.  And, for many, the holidays bring to mind the person who isn’t at the holiday table this year, and never will be again. 

Life, with its joys and sorrows, doesn’t really consult dates on a calendar when it presents us with challenges.  It has been a long time ago now, but I remember two holiday seasons, in particular, where I vacillated between the joyfulness of the season and the clarity of future reality.  It was a little bit like being on a teeter-totter on a playground.  Thrilled when you were up and bracing for when you were down, never knowing if it was going to be a soft touch down, going right back up; or, if this was the time you hit hard and bounced off. 

In 2004, my family – the sisters, the spouses, the children and my parents – all decided to go to Lethbridge for a family vacation.  We planned to enjoy a water par
k and other holiday happenings the city had to offer.  We were one year into my Dad’s brain cancer at that point.  The idea was great, but the timing was bittersweet.  Dad had been doing pretty well, but during that trip, it became evident that the tumor was growing again.  The following year, we spent the holiday season with Dad at Peace Hospice in Great Falls.  As a mother with young children at the time, I tried to keep up the appearances of the holidays for their sake.  Looking back, it seems like a strange blur of all the right holiday dresses, food and decorations accompanied with the worry, the doctors and nurses, and the inevitable death of my father. 

I think all people have their own bittersweet at the holidays.  I think the trick is to find more sweet than bitter.  There are ways to counteract holiday stress triggers.  One way is to communicate your needs clearly to those around you.  If cooking the meal for a huge family gathering destroys your joy, do a potluck or ask everyone to bring one appetizer, or have everyone bring their favorite cereal and you supply the milk.  Your family will surely remember the year they had cold cereal for their holiday feast!  Or, skip the food entirely and do a game night.  Another way to combat stress is to get regular exercise.  Even if you have company or are traveling, set aside the time you normally would to walk, swim, run or stretch.  Try to keep your diet as regular as possible, maybe even putting a little more focus on getting a wide variety of colorful fruits and vegetables. Eat a healthy breakfast packed with whole grains and drink plenty of water. When you are well-nourished, it seems you can handle more of the stresses coming your way. 

You can also use a variety of breathing techniques to reduce stress.  One breathing technique I learned during my counselor training was to exhale through your mouth as long as possible.  When you can no longer breathe out, take a deep breath in.  This technique was recommended for people who had anxiety attacks.  When you are already anxious, you are pretty tight and then someone will say, “take a deep breath,” which is not possible because are tense.  If you breathe the air out of your lungs first, they have to refill.  It can be very helpful in stressful situations or when having trouble sleeping at night.  Just repeat the process a few times until your body relaxes. 

You can even use those devices we all seem to be carrying around to help you relieve stress during the holidays.  The Shop Smart magazine, produced by Consumer Reports, recommended a few apps for stress reduction, including Breathe2Relax, Buddhify, Omvana and more, plus a few recommended podcasts including those found at UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center.  If an app isn’t for you, perhaps set a timer to remind you to go for a walk or do some deep breathing, stretching and relaxation exercises. 

With some of the stress-reduction tips, I hope you will find yourself up more than down on this season’s see-saw.  

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Disclaimer:  I have faith that you will take what you can use from this blog and discard the rest.  I believe in your ability to discern whether or not to spend any money on products suggested.  I trust you to understand that I am not endorsing any particular commercially available product over another one of like quality and cost.  

Resources:

The resources below are links to other websites that may be of interest to you on the same topic as this blog.

A Simple Enough Holiday  -- After writing my post, I found this article.  The author and I seem to share many of the same sentiments.  Wonder if we are distantly related?  

Tips on Holiday Eating from Our Friends at Utah State University Extension

Coping with Stress from eXtension

Grief and the Holidays