That Invitation Keeps Ringing

My head finally got to the pillow at one o’clock this morning, so when I shut my alarm off just a few hours later at 5:45 a.m., it was hard to remember that I set it as an “invitation” to my morning exercise routine.  The alarm is just one part of an invitation to exercise. I also have my shoes and exercise clothes set out, making them easy to grab in the morning.  I usually have a device ready with an audio book to listen to or an old TV series to stream while I start my day on the elliptical. 

There are several strategies to use when “inviting” yourself to exercise.  One of the classes I taught, 4-Health (which was for parents of teens and preteens who were trying to establish healthy households) suggested doing an “activity inventory” of the home.  The inventory or checklist asked families to go room by room in their homes to see if equipment that would encourage activity was available and easily accessible.  Having supplies and equipment ready to use makes a considerable difference in the items getting used.  Families were encouraged to make sure that balls, jump ropes, bikes, skates, sleds, etc. were easy to find and use.  That list of “exercise equipment” makes me think that exercise sounds a whole lot like play. Sometimes it is easier to answer an invitation to play than to exercise. 

Families in the 4-Health class were encouraged to take breaks from sedentary periods for active play. For instance, if watching TV, get up and do a jump rope challenge during the commercials.  For commercial-free sedentary activities, a timer can be used as a reminder or invitation to get up and move.  Families were able to set up simple and fun activity challenges, such as obstacle and relay courses.  One group had a bucket at the bottom of their stairs that they threw ping-pong balls into and when they missed, they ran down the stairs and back up for another try.  Another group designed a foam ball and somersault activity in their hallway.  Sometimes all it takes to be active is a little creativity and an invitation.

Of course, like play, exercise is often more fun with more than one person.  Another common way to incorporate motion into your day is to make it social.  Invite a friend to join you.  You are less likely to talk yourself out of exercising, if you know someone has arranged their schedule to join you. 

Take a look around your home to see if you can find any “invitations” to be active.  If not, it is time to start delivering some invitations.  Put a basket of hand or ankle weights by your favorite chair, set out your exercise clothes and set your alarm, even if it is for a mid-afternoon stroll.  I think I’ll start working on inviting myself to put my head on my pillow a little earlier, because a good night’s sleep makes it much easier to accept the invitation to get out of bed and exercise.

An Invitation from the Stairs

I was sitting at a table with colleagues at a conference, when one of them asked me what I was enjoying most about the conference center. I didn’t even hesitate and answered, “The stairs.”  I went on to explain that I loved the large, beautiful, open staircases at the conference hotel, which had been built around 1910 and was refurbished in the late 1940's.  I said I loved the way the wide staircases were such an invitation to use the stairs.  We then discussed how none of us had even really looked for the elevators, since the staircases were such a prominent architectural feature.  Now, I have nothing against elevators, and since many of my family members have used wheelchairs, I think they are a necessary part of any public building that has more than one floor.  However, it is unfortunate that somehow, when elevators were added, stairs were hidden – no longer the open invitation they had once been. 

With the invitation these stairs offer, there is no need to look for an elevator. 

There are many invitations in life that we don’t even notice, but that create daily habits.  My colleagues agreed that they had taken way more flights of stairs than normal, simply because of the structure of the building.  A week after I returned from the conference, I was in Bozeman on the MSU campus for a few days.  While I was there, I stopped into Joel Schumacher’s office.  He is an associate specialist in Extension Economics. I told him how much I liked the way that the parking situation on campus invited me to walk everywhere.  Of course, working on campus and dealing with the parking situation daily, he thought I was crazy.  Each day I was on campus I walked from buildings on the south end to buildings on the north end of campus.  It would have been ridiculous to drive, as it would have taken more time circling to find a parking space than it would have taken to walk.  I don’t know for sure, but I suspect I could walk most of main street in Choteau in about the same time and distance as I got across campus, and yet, parking is easy here, crosswalks are not as well marked as on campus, and there aren’t bunches of other people walking; and somehow, I just do not make it a habit to walk to do my errands. 

The stairs in this hotel are so grand and indeed, this flight takes you a half-level to the grand piano and then onto the main lobby.  

4-H BioScience on MSU campus.

This has been an unusual year, as I’ve been on campus nearly once a month since last spring. I’ve been paying attention to how the built environment either invites or discourages us from daily healthy choices.  Joel and I were visiting about how the buildings on campus, built in different eras, reflect not only structural choices, but health choices.  For instance, when I stay in the Hedges dorms (built in 1965), the elevators and stairs are in the same general location, but the stairs are in stair wells.  I think there is a reason they are called wells.  They feel cold, dark and cavernous -- not exactly an invitation.  Joel mentioned that in one of the new buildings on campus (I’ve not been in yet) there is a prominent, open staircase as part of the design. Maybe we have remembered something at the turn of this century that we knew a century ago.   I worked in the courthouse in Sheridan, Wyoming, which was built in 1905. It had a gorgeous oak staircase that summoned me to use it often during the years I was there.

I invite you to start looking for and taking the stairs.   Start walking to do your errands -- just seeing you walking may be enough to encourage others. Start paying attention to your environment and listen to the ways it invites you into your habits.  If you find that the invitation isn’t in favor of your health, refuse the invitation and create a new habit.  Structure your life, so that you are invited to make healthy choices.